This helps keep your public identity somewhat disguised.
It's what led me to helping women really understand who men are.
More and more people on Ok Cupid (and other sites such as Plenty of Fish (POF)) use two different profiles.
One profile contains great photos and little information, while the other contains great info and vague photos.
If you've ever wondered why dating felt like you were driving with one foot on the brake and one foot on the gas or you're wondering why you're not meeting great guys to spend time with, I'd like to share something with you.
First, you want to put in writing both your short term and your long term dating goals.
Believe me, it's easy to start thinking about what you don't want versus what you do. Not only can it bruise your ego but it can also bring up all the unhealed rejection that happened earlier in life.