) Does her profile say she’s a lesbian and you’re a straight guy with a weakness for Justin Bieber haircuts?Sorry pal, but she’s not gonna be into you, no matter how hard her floppy hair makes you.If you’re sending a message, the recipient already knows you’ve looked at their pictures and find them attractive.So instead of stating the obvious (“you look like a small child and I enjoy sexing small children”), point to what it was that attracted you to their personality (or at least the fragment of their personality that they put on the internet).We all want to get laid and we all have our sexual proclivities, and if we like something in particular we may mention it on our dating profile.But even if there’s a recognition that we, like almost every other adult human being, sometimes enjoy having our genitals touched, there’s no need to go all porno upon first introduction. Until you’ve gone actual porno in real life, leave the porno-chat alone.This is how to send a semi-decent online dating message in nine easy steps.
We know you’re trying to be “random” or “funny” with your ridiculous message about getting married / having babies / getting divorced / giraffes / or whatever other inappropriate thing you are messaging to dozens of people at once. It also doesn’t trick anyone (other than the slowest people on the internet) into thinking you wrote that totally nonsensical message just for us.
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“Hey gurl, luv ur pics” is not going to get a response.
More likely to get a response: A message that is directly responsive to several things in the object of your affection’s profile.
No one wants to date sad-sack, and no one wants to hear about your terrible past dating life the first time they talk to you.