Thankfully, most guys grow out of being the Leg Hair Police in their mid-20s. In his years of dating, he's probably been with a woman during a pregnancy scare and now fully understands the value of family planning.14.By the time they're 27, they could be sleeping with a sexy Chewbacca for all they care. He has his own friends and job and hobbies and schedule.I love him very much and I could be with him the rest of my life. Please, any advice that can provide insight into the relationship or help me not be confused? Because the only way you'll know you are in love, is when all your needs are met by a person. It only shows that you cannot take care of yourself and that you're relying on him to pick up the slack when you drop the ball. Now, the part about him not buying you a bday present two years in a row indicates that he's not in it. So either way, he should leave you or you should leave him.You are in a relationship where you are not ever going to be taken care of by this man and at 26 you should be finding someone who is your first (ie never been married and that wants to have kids with you)It sounds to me like you are the girlfriend that he has while he supports the family he has already experienced. He's not buying your love, he's just stabilizing the relationship ... It's the other way around for the whole child support thing because for me my ex pays me for the child support because she choose her work over her kids even when we were together. I also recently started talking with a divorced male. At first I was really skeptical about dating him, mainly because his children are close to my age but he assured me that they wouldn't mind. Some guys just come to this realization sooner than others *cough**cough*.5. Thanks to the patriarchy, women learn to master blow jobs early in their sexual lives (sometimes before they even lose their virginity) but guys typically don't figure out that women want their vulvas licked until their mid-20s. Oooh, yeah, work that upholstery attachment that you read about in the Miele manual.4. Every guy comes to the realization that being jealous of your guy friends just makes him look sad and lame.At times, he can be very loving and sweet, but his anger could be explosive (he has never abused me). I too would be a bit disgruntled if my young girlfriend who is your age cannot pay her own bills.
He doesn't give a shit if you haven't shaved in a few days. " Older guys probably have nieces or nephews or neighbor kids by this point and can interact with a child in a normal way. He doesn't try to get away with not using a condom.
Maybe the Noah to your Allie is the better comparison here.
He says that he wants to buy her a car when she goes to college, etc.
If I need something that costs money he doesn't offer to help me. It bothers me that he doesn't give me anything and that he makes me feel uncomfortable asking him for anything.
Once I needed advice on an unrelated situation and I asked him to see things from my point of view rather than from an older persons point of view.
I think that it is great that he provides for his daughter. He is uncomfortable with me living in his house with him, yet he has no problems paying the mortgage for the house that his ex-wife and child lives in.