It doesn't sound to me like you are going to meet mom. She rather had worked 7 days 13hours shifts some of those times was having an affair with her boss but hey that's another story. Now we so far have only went on one date but we planned our next date for when he has gotten back in town.
I would not be wasting my 20's hoping this older guy is going to be yours one day. Just making a side note that sometimes it's the Mother in certain circumstances that pays the father the child support. Essentially he has asked me to enter into a long, long distance relationship with him.
Thankfully, most guys grow out of being the Leg Hair Police in their mid-20s. In his years of dating, he's probably been with a woman during a pregnancy scare and now fully understands the value of family planning.14.
By the time they're 27, they could be sleeping with a sexy Chewbacca for all they care. He has his own friends and job and hobbies and schedule.
Having seen more than two vulvas, he knows each is a beautiful and unique orchid and he won't hesitate to compliment yours.10. He holds it out from his body like he has stiff little Tyrannosaurus arms and the baby hangs there like, "Who the fuck handed me to this beer-breathed sociopath in cargo shorts?
He doesn't give a shit if you haven't shaved in a few days. " Older guys probably have nieces or nephews or neighbor kids by this point and can interact with a child in a normal way. He doesn't try to get away with not using a condom.
For instance, he accuses me of lying when there is no reasonable reason to believe that I am. They are left in financial straits and have to pay alimony and child support, then face the stigma that you just proved that women stay away from them BECAUSE they are trying to be responsible to their children (goes to prove my point that they like douchebags). I'm divorced with children and dating a girl that's about your age.
He makes broad accusations saying, "I hate when women do that," even when it doesn't necessarily fit me. And SAVY you just proved my point about women being gold digging attention getter's DEMAND DEMAND DEMAN? First of all, I agree with the earlier post that the ex husband is obligated / required to pay the mortgage, child support, provide benefits, etc…
He says that he wants to buy her a car when she goes to college, etc.
I.e., he won't be one of those lamewads who clings to your friend group and sits around the house eating Cheez-Its and waiting for you to come over and watch Netflix with him.
Not that there's anything wrong with Cheez-Its, but nobody likes a clinger.15. If he likes you, why would he avoid you until it's deemed societally appropriate to text?
I have never been married and I don't have any kids, so I sometimes think I'm being unfair to myself by dating a divorced man with a child. If that is all you in the relationship for then I say he BETTER run.
Sometimes when he is angry with me, I feel as though he is acting out a previous event that he had with his wife. In his eyes I'm his queen - and i make sure he understands that( I make it a Well gymgirlie men have responsibilities after a divorce that you couldn't possible fathom. It is give and take, and time for you to understand that he is older, probably does care for you, but in a different headspace, and for you to grow up and be supportive, not tear him down.
He is paying the mortgage may due to the court order or part of the divorce settlement like 50 % he pays and 50 % the ex-wife pays since his name is still in the ownership? But imo, I think you should leave him since it seems he hasn't balanced his priorities between you and his ex in some areas. You are going to have to sit him down and let him know exactly how you feel.. I am not the first female he has dated after his divorce but I am wondering is he getting attached to soon? When we talk and I am with him ( even thought it was just once) it's great.