” But I stuck by him during that time because he had been so present in my life when my father passed. On the day he kissed me, things started to get fuzzy.
When we were alone, things felt very relationship-y.
You should know the signs of a toxic relationship and never let that slide.
But, if it’s just a case of someone being kind of an ass, so what? Your job is to be a good friend, no matter how hard that is.
She insists, fairly manically, that she’s happy— in fact, she refuses to say a word against him— but she seems nervous, withdrawn, and has given up all of her hobbies. But that big question was: should she say something?
The couple hasn’t been together long, and the woman is insecure and tends to fall in love very quickly but, more than that, the gentleman in question is a knob. And it isn’t just that she spends all of her time with him, it’s that she doesn’t seem to be to go out.
It made me ponder, “Do I really want to be with someone who attracts this kind of relationship into their life?
“Some people are not as personable and appealing until they are really integrated into a group.
If you give the person time they may grow on you.” Sometimes, you have to say something.
“In addition, you should realise that ‘no good deed goes unpunished! “Expressing dislike or disapproval of your friends’ finance is rarely going to go well!
You need to have a very significant reason for doing so and it needs to be well thought out.” Even then, the risks are high.
I was wearing rose-colored glasses and only saw the good parts of him, but I still didn’t feel right about the nature of our relationship. I’d had a dream that he slapped me across the face. I remember talking to a therapist a few years ago about this phenomenon.